Hey, I have had it tough in relationships.
My Boyfriend Left Me To Date My Friend
In one of my recent relationships, I went out with this guy for about a year and we were going good until one of my friends started flirting with him and he fell in love with her. I felt bad but tried to ignore it and remember that we were going to stay together for ever. Well, we didn't he broke up with me for my friend. He asked her out and she said "No".
I have learned that you need to worry at least a little bit about your partner and if he or she is drifting away from you talk or do something about it.
I Learned Not To Get Even
Another relationship I had was my boyfriend just started doing drugs and I found out that he was going out with another girl. I got mad and broke up with him. But I was cheating on him, too. I had never told him and was sad and angry with myself after I broke up with him. Then we went out again and he said he was sorry but I wanted to get even so we went to the movies and in the middle of the movies I said I was going to get a drink but instead I started making out with one of my guy friends and my boyfriend walked by and saw me. He said it was over and that getting even was the stupidest thing. I should have never done that because he loved me a lot.
I learned not to cheat or get even because it's not worth it.
I Give Good Advice
I know that relationships are tough and that they may never go the way as planned. Guys and girls can go too far. I also know that relationships are confusing, hard, etc. I think that I would be a good panelist because I am easy to talk to and very very understanding and give very good advice.
Have Sex If You Want
I think that cheating is wrong. You should have sex if you want to and don't be pressured to anything you don't wanna do.
Female, age 13, USA