I've just crossed the 10 year mark in marriage - celebrating it with candelights, crashing waves, sandy beaches and friends.
What I Do
I owned a coffeehouse for six years - complete with Open Mic Night, brass & copper cappuccino maker and a love for slacker boys and girls. They are usually too smart for their own good.
I also run my own advice web site called Javashrink.
The innate desire to continually reproduce draws us into intimacy. Fighting it doesn't help. So the goal is to embrace intimacy, love and companionship. Developing the healthiest, happiest relationship possible.
(And allowing a little bit of freakieness)