I am a 27-year-old woman who was raised in the military then married into it after one year out of high school.

I now have 2 children and a marriage that varies from wonderful to horrible. My friends and co workers always say I try to see both sides of a question. I love to give people advice, not to voice myself but to honestly help other people.

I have had an average number of relationships starting from when I was in high school until now of course. My first love and I are still friends but live a long distance from one another.

I've Been Married for 8 Years

My husband and I have been married for 8 years and have been separated once. We love each other a ton but deal with the everyday stress of everyday people. LOL like money and kids ;).

My Philosophy: Be Honest

My philosophy is first and foremost be honest. A lie is just to save your pride and will only hurt the ones you love in the long run.

You also need to sacrifice to make it in the world of love today. Your passion and strength of love will waver depending on what is going on around you. That doesn't mean you love them less at heart but the momentary love is less. I believe if both parties are willing you can make any relationship work.

I haven't read all the panelist bios but I know I am and honest and strong person who has been through some tough decisions and situations and managed to land on my feet by being honest and compassionate. Not everyone agrees with my decisions but that is fine they were mine to make.

All I ask is that people think about the advice given to them, it may not always fit to that situation but if they asked...

– Sydney