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Why don't I attract the guys that I want?

Dear Panel,

It's not that I have problems meeting men, on the contrary, I get asked for my phone number on a regular basis.

The problem is that I am approached by men that are totally unattractive to me and all the men that are attractive to me never seem to be interested in me or at least never approach me. 

What can I do about this predicament?


Maybe you are looking for the wrong type.

Swim shallower shores.

Take the initiative.


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How come I'm pretty and alone?

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