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Basically I don't know what to do because I really tried to have a serious relationship with three girls so far in the last 2 months and I have been screwed over by all of them.

Now I don't know if I should just become a manwhore again which I'm good at, or keep trying to have a relationship...

-- Jay

Male, age 17, USA

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Dear Panel,

I was an asshole this whole SEXFEST '02 "summer" since my brother who holds the title for sleeping with 9 girls in one summer which I'm at 5 so far and I know I could make it to 10 easily and beat his record, but the thing is I actually want a relationship and I can't find one...

I Was A Manwhore

I screwed over these girls really bad and I just hit it and quit it and now I'm actually looking for a secure relationship and no girl wants me no more except for sex and that's it... I lost 2 of my best friends of SIX years because after I had sex with two of these girls and I turned them down to be their girlfriends they went to my best friends.

Now I'm Getting Screwed Over

I know I deserve it considering I had sex with both of their best friends... but the thing is I have been trying and trying to just be with one girl but now I'm the one getting blown off and screwed over and it sucks even though I do deserve everything that's coming to me..

I Just Want One Girlfriend

I don't wanna be a manwhore no more. I just wanna have a relationship with ONE girl. I feel like I'm all these girls bitches now instead of the other way around considering I have to call them now and always ask them to go places with me, but before the girls always called me and asked me to do stuff...

Basically I don't know what to do because I really tried to have a serious relationship with three girls so far in the last 2 months and I have been screwed over by all of them and now I don't know if I should just become a manwhore again which I'm good at.. or keep trying to have a relationship which I want but can't have.

-- Jay

Male, age 17, USA

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