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.... I broke up with my boyfriend because he wasn't Don and I only wanted Don. When I told Don, I expected him to break up with his girlfriend and we could be together, but he did not and I don't know why...

– Jasmina

Female, age 23, Florida, USA

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Dear Panel,

I am a single 23 year old female. I am looking for a strong, good man to share my life with and have fun. A good man to love me unconditionally and to stimulate my mind and body.

Kamana'ono'eau How can he be perfect? He cheated!

Don is the man I am in love with, but he has a girlfriend. They have been together for two years. Don is my idea of a perfect man, beauty, brain and body. I want him.

I have been seeing/sleeping with Don for about a year. We started out as just friends because we were both in relationships with other people. But, our chemistry was too strong and we quickly became lovers. We had an agreement that it was just sex and having fun.

This man is my idea of a perfect man, We have a great time together and our conversations are so stimulating that I find myself replaying our conversations back in my mind hours later. Therefore, I quickly fell in love with Don. I broke up with my boyfriend because he wasn't Don and I only wanted Don.

When I told Don, I expected him to break up with his girlfriend and we could be together, but he did not and I don't know why.

I am honestly the perfect woman to this man. I treat him like a king. And he always tells me how beautiful and sexy I am and that he thinks about me everyday and looks forward to spending time with me. He also complains that his girlfriend is not the woman for him, so why doesn't he break up with her and be with me?

What should I do about Don and this situation?

– Jasmina

Female, age 23, Florida, USA

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