Dear Panel,

Hi! How are you all?

I've been with my boyfriend for a month now and we are complete opposites. He always wants to go out drinking and clubbing and I don't like clubs much. I go with him a lot and it's not a bad time, but I'd rather be doing something else.

He knows that I don't like going and he always offers to do something else, but I feel bad because I know he'd rather be at the club.

He's the sweetest guy I've ever been with and I don't want to end things with him, but I feel that I can't be myself around him or his friends.

Any suggestions? Thanks!

- Beans

Female, age 19, New Mexico (USA)