Dear Extrememly Confused,

Yes you are right, anyone who just read this would think that you are a slut.

I don't necessarily think that you are one. I think you are sleeping with these guys because you think that you have to. For some reason you think that these guys really really care about you.

You're wrong. He cares about her, not sex.

Well, let me tell you something: Any guy who sleeps with you and then doesn't want to do anything else but sleep with you only wants you for sex.

Making a Name for Yourself

Although you don't think of yourself as a slut, you are making a name for yourself. Whether you like it or not. These guys are telling other guys, who are telling other people, etc. And people are going to start to believe that a slut is what you are. But hey, as long as you know that you're not.

He Wants You for Sex

I say that this guy is only with you because he has heard that you have been putting out with just about anyone and he figures if he gets back with you, then you will put out with him, too.

That's not fair. He's the only one who seems to love her.

Then when you don't, I think that it may make him wonder what he's doing wrong, when you sleep with other guys but not with him.

Know What You Want First

I think you have an issue; you need to figure out what you really want out of a relationship. You can't really get into a relationship until you know what you want. This isn't about the guys and what they want, it's about what you want. Until you can figure that out then it's best to stay single. By not knowing what you really want, you can't ask anything from anyone else.

– Bailey