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Marry him since I lost my virginity to him?

Dear Panel,

I'm 12-years-old and I lost my virginity to my ex-boyfriend. He's 13 years old. I swear I don't know what happened between me and him that night.

Now, he wants to get married to me. I know we're still young. My language is Hmong and his is English.

He said he'll kill himself if I don't marry him. I caught him twice in his room trying to commit suicide. He always leaves a note saying that he loves me.

Now, he wants to have sex with me again. What should I do? Or should I just let him die?

– Lost My Virginity

Female, age 12, USA

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