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Why do guys use porn?


Dear Frustrated,

Almost every guy I know including myself uses porn.

Men Are Pigs

It is a known fact that men are more visually stimulated and women fantasize more. Men are pigs. He most likely will be no different than anybody else.


I'll say it. She SHOULD get over it.

I am not saying you have to get used to it.

He's Insulting You


Wrong. In a long term relationship, less sex is normal.

I see your point that you are also having less sex with him. That is insulting.

He doesn't seem as horny around you, but he still masturbates. You need to keep it interesting.

Make Him Jealous

And if he wants to use other stimuli to get himself off that is fine. You go out and do the same. Go by a vibrator and some toys. You think that you are jealous of him and his porn. Wait to you see his reaction.

I wish I had a clear cut answer for you, but I don't. You need to allow him to be honest with you.


Right. And if she gets upset, he'll keep lying.

He is not going to tell you he uses porn because he knows it probably bothers you.

Talk About It Together

You both need to sit down and have a long talk about it. It is not a serious problem at all as long as he is faithful and loves you as much as you say he does.

Good luck!




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