Dear Panel, I am a college student a year away from graduation. Mike is a wonderful guy and I'm very much in love with him. We've been dating for five years. For the last four years we've had a long distance relationship. I'm convinced that this is the man I want to marry. But whenever I bring up anything having to do with marriage, he seems to get uncomfortable. I told him that I want to marry him and he replied that I would make a great wife but he wants to make sure I'm the one. Why does he get uncomfortable about the subject of marriage and what should I do? Hopelessly in Love Female, age 22, USA |