I am a very sarcastic, funny, beautiful and intelligent 20-year-old college sophomore. I am a very independent person, and very stubborn, yet in relationships I turn to mush.
He's A Great Person
My boyfriend is a 22-year-old college senior and just about perfect. He's funny, sweet, caring, and has this incredible ability to calm me down when I get angry. Physically he's lacking, but I'm at the point where every time I look at him I think he's sexier than before.
Our Meeting Was A Drunken Frat Hook Up
I feel lame writing this but It's a concern of mine. I met my boyfriend one random night, in the worst "that will never turn into a relationship way" ie. drunken frat hookup. I wanted it to stay as that, I wasn't interested in him for awhile. He was way too nice, like he was kind of a pussy about stuff, and I didn't feel any challenge, he would do ANYTHING for me.
He Won Me Over
Long story short, he showed his true colors, and won me over. His sense of humor is disgusting, and crude, and sarcastic, as is mine, but when it comes down to it he loves to cuddle and use baby voices with me.
Our Relationship Is Great
We've been together for a year and we have a great time together. We hang out a lot together, like with his friends, and I've been accepted as "the only cool girlfriend". We're both form California and we go to school in New York. He's staying an extra year for grad school, mostly for me next year.
Being This In Love Makes Me Insecure
Here's the thing, I really want to be with him forever. I have so many insecurities though. Like I feel like something is going to jinx the whole thing. Part of me feels too young to feel this in love. I just don't want to mess it up. Like I feel like he could loose interest, or maybe he'll begin to think my assertive ways are too domineering.
Can boys really stay with one person forever? I mean is it possible to fall in love and live happily ever after, even if I'm so young?
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