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I flat out told him to leave me alone and I deleted him from my messenger and I blocked his email address.

And now he keeps creating new email addresses under some of my friend's emails and writes me, he has asked a few of my friends to take pics of me and send them to him.

How do I get him to leave me alone forever?

-- Mae

Female, age 16, USA

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Dear Panel,

I am a 16-year-old female. I'm not sure if this is your type of advice, but I'll ask anyway. Jim is a 17-year-old male. I don't really know much about him. He lives about 40 miles away from where I live.

He's My Friend's Ex

Katie is a good friend of mine, Jim's ex girlfriend. They are still friends. She lives in the same town as I do.

I met Jim in December when him and Katie were still dating, I added him to one of my messengers, just interested in friendship and nothing else. Two days later Katie dumped him.

I Turned Him Down

A little while later, not too much longer afterward, he asked me if I would go out with him and I said no because he's my friend's ex, and I'm not really interested in a relationship right now, and he said he understood.

He's Emailing Me Weird Stuff

He continued to ask again a little while later and after 4 or 5 times of me turning him down he started sending me weird e-mails. They said thing like that he loves me more than anyone, and that he has never slept with anyone and wants me to be his first, and that he know we will end up together in the end end, and we can't deny fate and I should just give in now, and that in the future we should get married and have kids, 3, two girls and a boy, he even named them and when they were born.

That's when I flat out told him to leave me alone and I deleted him from my messenger and I blocked his email address.

And now he keeps creating new email addresses under some of my friend's emails and writes me, he has asked a few of my friends to take pics of me and send them to him. None of them have, but I'm getting to the point where I want to report him to the cops or something, but my friend, whose dad is a cop keeps telling me there's nothing they can do since I deleted all of his messages and have no proof he is doing this, but he's kind of starting to scare me.

How do I get him to leave me alone forever?

-- Mae

Female, age 16, USA

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