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It is just really hard for me because I am in love with him and he is in love with another woman and I know that he will never be mine. I don't know why I am wasting my time right now with him.

What should I do and how do I cope with this?

-- Tinia

Female, age 18, Florida

 

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Dear Panel,

I am an 18-year-old girl who is in love with her boss that is married.

Yes, I know it sounds bad but it's true. We have only been working together for about 2 months now and I've already fallen for him. Nobody else knows this but me and him.

I have told him I am in love with him, he asked me so I answered him honestly. He doesn't treat me any differently.

He's 22-Years-Old

His name is Paul. He is 22 and my boss. I have liked him since the day I met him. He has given me rides home a couple of times and the last time he did we ended up sleeping together.

I have already written you guys but It's only been a day and I don't know how long it takes you to respond back to people. So if you see a story similar to this one it's me again. I am just trying to make sure I get everything in there.

He's Married With Two Kids

We slept together and I am happy but then at the same time I feel like shit, because I know that he is married and to top it all off he has 2 kids with her. I know that he loves her a lot, and that night we slept together he was telling me how bad he feels because of what he just did, which made me feel even worse, but he still wants to do it again and he flirts with me constantly at work.

I am sorry for telling you this dumbass story but I really just need someone to talk to right now and I found out about this web site and I am hoping you guys can help me out with this situation or just tell me how I can cope with it.

I Know He Will Never Be Mine

It is just really hard for me because I am in love with him and he is in love with another woman and I know that he will never be mine. I don't know why I am wasting my time right now with him. What should I do and how do I cope with this?

THANK YOU so much for having this web site. I feel better now that I got this stuff off of my chest.

-- Tinia

Female, age 18, Florida

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