I disagree because...well I should say I don't disagree it just sounded onesided. After my divorce of fourteen years, I was the one that was gun shy, I didn't want to be hurt again. I started making friends anywhere I could my computer became the frist place I went the chat rooms, I felt I needed to start some place and this way I was not comitted to anyone. I must say this was a great place to start for me. I found that I was interesting no matter what my x mate said.
Then came the face to face meetings, I have to say I was scared to death, that I was a failure I found out I wasn't. Oh the one thing I forgot to say is I started counseling before the break up and tho it was painful I had someone to talk to all the way through the process being a man and asking for counseling and guideance from others was diffacult at first but it isn't that way now.
I am re-married and have a woderful wife that I can talk to even when we are mad about something. signature = The second time around