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I have a problem (duh)! 

I dated this guy for about 2 years.  After we broke up, he found out that I had cheated on him, but then I found out that he had gone out with his ex after we had broken up, but while we were still talking (and intimate).

  We were both wrong, but he acts as if he is innocent and he places all the blame on me.  We still talk, go out, don't see other people and etc.  as if we were a couple, but he says that he doesn't know if he can trust me enough to get back together with me?

I love him too much to let him go.  I have even tried to go out with other people, but I always end up crying & missing him when I'm with someone else!  Any advice?

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 Lonely & Confused

Hope Answers:

 I think the only thing you can do is be patient and wait for him to build his trust again. He is probably waiting to see if your actions line up with your words. (It is easy to say you're sorry and claim that the cheating episode meant nothing, but talk is cheap!)

She needs to figure out what she really wants

singletin2.gifSo, I would recommend that you simply show him through your actions and your words how you feel about him, and allow him some time and space to decide where he wants to go with the relationship.

Time to Think

In the meantime, you might want to do some serious thinking yourself. If you cheated on him, you need to

I'm asking myself the same question.Why did she cheat on him?

singletin2.gif seriously consider why. Although cheating is never a solution for anything, you should consider whether there was a problem or incompatibility in the relationship (or a weakness within yourself) that led to you cheat on him. Do you think the problem or weakness is still present? If so, you need to deal with it before you can expect him to take you back.

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