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Dear Panel,

I have a friend and we've been seeing each other for 2 months, if that's what you want to call it.  One minute he is real nice and the next I just want to kick his butt.  Is this his way of not getting too close or is he already? And notyelbtblk.gif admitting it? Please help!!!


Lefty Answers:

Dear Confused,

Anyia What the hell kind of an advice is that? WHO CARES?

Who cares?


SHE cares. And maybe if she knew WHY, she could help him.

aliciaLtin.gifWhat does it matter if it's his way of not getting close, or his way of getting attention, or his way of showing you his love?  I don't know if he's doing something particularly rude when you want to "kick his butt" or if it's just that he's irritating.  What does it matter?  You know, not EVERYONE is meant to be your perfect match.  If this guy is upsetting you so frequently, for goodness sakes, why on earth to you want to pursue him?

Ok, I'll even give you the benefit of the doubt and assume that you talked to him about his behavior.  If he still upsets you, then why not find someone who does not upset you?  You can control yourself, but you can't control other people (entirely).  Two months should have been plenty of time to figure out what's going on.  Kick your own butt OUT of there and find someone who's compatible with you.

-- Lefty

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