I have been living with my current boyfriend for almost 4 years. Everytime I bring up the subject of marriage, we end up in a fight, with me upset and him angry. He says that he doesn't have the money to get married, but yet I see he has no problem saving for other things he wants. We just went to two weddings where he gave $500 to each couple as a wedding gift. [...]
Is this the conduct of a guy who I am to believe when he says that he wants to spend his life with me, but yet when the subject comes up he gets angry, and doesn't want anyone at his reunion to know that I exist? [...]
By the way, I'm 30 and he will be 29 next week. We have a year to go on our lease. I told him that this is the last year that I will sign a lease with him
without being engaged.