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Dear Panel,

for the girls. Would you get mad if your boyfriend surfs the web for pornography (like once a week)?  I get mad that he wants to look at naked teens and it makes me feel like he doesn't desire me.  He says that it has nothing to do with me, but it still bothers me a lot.  ? for the guys. how many of you surf for naked girls?  And if you answer yes,

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do you have girlfriends?

sarah

Mare Answers:

It's important to remember that you are his girlfriend, the women in the pictures are not.  That means that he desires you.  Nothing he looks at can take that away.  In my own case, the impure thoughts I have about Johnny Depp

But pornography is a destructive and addictive habit.

hopeTinL.gif(and the picture of him I lust over) are not an indication that I love or desire my partner any less.

Besides, it's best to keep the "not allowed" activities to a minimum when you're in a relationship.

Fine - but naked teens?

hopeTinL.gifAfter all, you don't want him telling you what to do, right?  I say, let him look.

 

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