I would have to say that there are a lot of things wrong with college relationships, particularly those that begin when living in on-campus housing. It seems to me that the following would be the my top 5 concerns:
1. Starting a Relationship Drunk
Things can often tend to begin drunk and on a physical rather than emotional level. Additionally, Guys and girls may be looking for very different things from the outset. She wants Prince Charming and he wants some action or vice versa- she wants some attention and he wants a commitment.
2. Moving Too Fast
If things progress they move too fast physically and often still lack the emotional content that a successful relationship ultimately needs.
3. Casual But Intense
Relationships can tend to be very casual. On the other hand relationships can be very intense because of close living quarters which can lead to other pressures as noted above. It seems to be extreme either way with no middle ground
4. Neglecting Studies
Relationships can become all-consumng and studying and grades can become neglected.
5. Constant Change
Everyone is going through so many changes and phases that relationships can sometimes suffer the side effects of an unstable situation.