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Why won't my girlfriend have sex with me now?

Dear Panel,

My girlfriend and I have been going out for nearly two years now and have been having regular sex throughout.

A couple of months ago, my girlfriend told me that she didn't want to have sex as often anymore as she thought that it had become less special between us. About a month ago, we broke up and then got back together again.

She now tells me that she doesn't want to have sex with me at all because it makes her feel dirty afterwards and that she doesn't want to do any sexual activity at all or even want me to see her naked.

What should I do?

I love her and want our relationship to work, but I want to have sex with her.

– Wanting Sex

Male, age 18, United Kingdom

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