Reader Skuzzie Agrees:
Take Time To Support Another's Problems
I agree. When two people love each other they should take time to be there for one another's problems.
I Tell Her How She Can Make Me Feel Better
One thing I tend to do with my girlfriend to solve things (because I get worried a lot) is to tell her exactly how she can make me feel better if I act a certain way again.
For example, if you tend to get jealous and know that if she hugged and kissed you and said "You are the only one I love" would diffuse your anger, tell her that.
She Had To Make Me Feel Better About Myself
I used to have a jealousy problem with my current girlfriend and I did that and now I don't get jealous anymore. She doesn't even have to say that anymore and my jealous feelings are totally gone all that she had to do is make me feel better about myself and now I don't even feel jealousy any more.
If two people are willing to work things together like me and my girlfriend do you can get through anything and strengthen your relationship not hurt it. Good luck!
Male, age 23, Massachusetts, USA